This was not my very bestest day.
1. The government wants more numbers – so, more digging in the database at the volunteer job.
2. Got an email from an old friend who pointed out that am all alone and must plan to take care of myself. I know that. I just don’t like to think about it.
3. I missed a chance to have lunch with an old park service friend.
4. A friend of Carlton’s (and mine) who lives in an asylum – told me that if he were alone (there is that alone again) he would get rid of almost all of his stuff and move into the studio. And after getting the hang of asylum living – move into more gracious digs – with nice new furniture. And, that I should sign up at the asylum for the “full service” plan. Since I have no “backup”. More of that alone theme.
5. And then the mail came. A note that my 50th College reunion is at hand. Send Money. Feel VERY OLD.
6. And more mail. The IRS wants more info about Carlton’s return. They said they are missing a schedule. I think they lost it. But, not going to argue. Going to send them another copy tomorrow. Via registered mail, of course.
But, look at the bright side.
I think I have made up my mind about the asylum. By this morning, I was leaning towards getting one of the units – for peace of mind. Carlton’s old friend’s advice was the final nudge. I will get Studio #2 – the one on the 7th floor. It seems to be the more liveable of the two. I could just get rid of all my furniture. Take my pictures, rugs, quilts, clothes, computers and books and pick up a real shiki Japanese futon and live a very minimal life. Something to think about. And, I don’t have to move to the studio unless I want to. I can surely wait until fall. And enjoy summer here upon the roof. 4th of July. Etc. Or not. Not problem. Options.
And, Thanks to everyone for chiming in with ideas. I don’t “need” to move to an asylum “yet”. At this instant I walk 5 miles a day. Do pretty hard yoga classes. My brain still functions at maybe 75% of what it did 50 years ago. You have to pass a mental and physical exam to get into my asylum. That is one reason to move in sooner not later. I have a friend who funked the physical. They don’t want to let you in the asylum if you need to be there. It is like long term care insurance. You can not get long term care insurance if you need it. You have to get in the asylum before you need to be in.
Now, I think I need a beer.
Love the irises!
Hi Peg,
Sounds like you are about ready to commit to a CCRC. Several years back, I visited the CCRC near us and learned a few things. I have also done some research into CCRCs. One key thing that I have learned is that some CCRCs offer various agreements to potential residents whereby 60 to 85% of the initial big $$$ payment will be refunded to you if you decide to move out or refunded to your heirs if you pass on while a resident of the CCRC. I think that is a nice feature, but it may not be offered by the CCRC you are considering. I think you would be wise to move in before you become ill or infirm as they may not take you under those conditions later on. It is a long term policy that guarantees you a place to live for the rest of your life, even if you get sick after moving there. As I am sure you know, they have different levels of care, depending on your needs going forward.
Best regards,
Ed