I want to get Mr C back to Arlington and to his dermatologist. I want to go back yesterday. He wants to stay until the end of January. I could just announce that I am going back and he can do what ever he wants. That is the only way I can get him to leave before he is good and ready to leave.
So, Plan B is to just shut up about what he “should” do. But, I will be ready to break camp at a moments notice if I see him weakening.
I spent most of yesterday worrying about him. That is rather counter productive.