Carlton at his Junior Prom. Her name was Sue, she made her dress and she was his first love. – 1952? Not knocking her for making her dress. We did that back then.Most likely high school. Same wall as Junior Prom shot. Carlton and his date.Spring Formal 15 or 16 April 1955 Pat Ballaid and CarltonRing Dance – Carlton & Emmy Dee (I LOVE this photo. The bitch that I am.) Class 1957 May 11 or 12 1956Carlton and EmmyDee Wedding – 1958?Carlton and Girl Friend Myrna – June 6, 1972. Myrna and I had a strange relationship. She was his girlfriend but he was still married to Emmy Dee. Myrna was one of the loves of his life and he kept in touch with her. In later years by email. But, Carlton didn’t do email. So, I did all the email sending and receiving. She sent me some pictures of Carlton from their time together when he was dying. Myrna came with her husband and kids to visit Carlton. The husband, kids and I went to the zoo so they could have some time together. Peg and Carlton Wedding – Jan 5, 1994. And here we are on the day I was hijacked into getting married. I was the Ninja Bride. Carlton was just smug. Because he tricked me into getting married. From that day forth, Carlton called me “my current wife”. Well, I am now “his last wife”.
But most importantly – Today is Carlton’s 52nd AA Anniversary.
Gratitude
I am the luckiest old woman on the planet.
I braved the freezing outside weather for a fine winter day walk. Also, made soup. Folded some cranes to go in the BobBox. Failed to complete everything on my ToDo List for today.
USGS Photo. “My” volcano went out. But, it was great while it lasted.
Very little was accomplished today. I did laundry, worked on The BobBox, and curled up with a nice cup of coffee in my comfy chair.
The BobBox – playing with my scale model to figure out how the designs will lay when folded.
The box is made from 20inch square paper.
Our paper is 18×24 inches.
Some assembly required.
The only way I can make it work is by making a scale model. I hope we complete the box by Monday noon.
And by noon Monday our area is supposed to be covered with 6+ inches of snow. We’ll see. I think they have been hyping it too much. We haven’t had “a lot” of snow in many years.
One great advantage to old age at The Asylum is that snow doesn’t matter at all. Well, maybe 30 inches might matter. But 6-10 inches. No worries.
Checked out the window before settling down to work on the next phase of the BobBox. It wasn’t looking too good.
The Dojo didn’t stay neat.
After 30 minutes of fussing with the large paper – the Origami Dojo doesn’t look too good.
And, at 3:34 it appears to be snowing. Alexa just announced that we are having a snow squall.
At this instant, I am hating the BobBox. The colors are all wrong. It’s never going to be finished. Why am I wasting my time on this? This is the normal Peg Project Progression. I was this way at work too.
This is way too easy a project for someone with my great skills.
This project is never going to work. It’s impossible. Why are we even trying to do this?
Policy has been made. It’s simply a matter of implementation.
And the project is completed, usually on time and within budget.
So, I know that progress is being made because I am now in stage two.
Yep, it is snowing and the kids across the street are already out inspecting the sledding hill.
The day started with me getting the Origami Dojo ready for serious action.
This is what the Dojo normally looks like when it is extremely tidy.
Things that haven’t been dusted in almost 10 years were dusted. When the project is finished, the table might get a rubdown with oil.
And, what is the project that requires all this space? And cleanness?
The BobBox – Suitable for a Viking Funeral.
It’s Bob. We are building a nice origami box for Bob’s cremains, and ultimately, a Viking Funeral. How fun is that? Bob is currently in a Christmas bag. I don’t know Bob, but I am pretty sure I would have liked him.
Gratitude
Grateful that I live alone and can leave everything all spread out until the project is finished.
Hopefully, the box will be finished by this time next week. It’s not hard. It just takes a lot of planning. Even with planning, I made a cutting error this morning. We invoked “whatever happens is what I planned” and glued the paper back together.
2024 Ends. We are past our sell-by date. (Except for our young guest. She isn’t anywhere near her sell-by date.) But, we are still here!
Had a festive early evening with my Asylum Family. I confess I was asleep well before midnight.
Start off 2025 with bagels!. Grateful modern dental care and fluoridated water make it possible for old people to eat bagels.
This morning, I happily walked the long way to the bagel store and picked up OK bagels. The usual suspects brunched at The Asylum today, and Asylum bagels resemble hockey pucks. I lived here and complained loudly about the bagels for almost a decade. Last January 1, I remembered that there was a bagel place a block away. Since then, I have supplied the bagels for my table.
This leads me to my New Year’s Affirmation—not a resolution, but an affirmation to Accept and Adapt to whatever 2025 has in store.
Carlton didn’t do Christmas, Valentine’s Day, Birthdays etc. But, he did remember anniversaries. And, December 30 is the day that he considered our anniversary. This is year 46. We had a great run.
Gratitude
After all these years, still grateful that I was hungry on Dec 30, 1978 when Carlton asked “Do you want to go get dinner when we finish work?” He had a project that was screwed up and I was supposed to fix it. Before the end of the year.
I was out on an errand this morning and saw a penny on the sidewalk. I stopped and picked it up. Carlton always picked up pennies. “And when did you get too rich to bend over and pick up a penny?” was his question. I am not too rich. But, I am getting too old. I always assume that Carlton puts the penny in my path as a test. Or maybe a reminder that he still has my back.
Good news.
100% Crop. No Post Processing.
These cranes are not going to be a problem. They are working on an elementary school and a library, neither of which will be much taller than the trees.
And my discovery. The Pixel 8 phone does a fine job with 10X zoom photos. 5X is its optical zoom limit. But while researching my watch issues, I found a little article that urged folk to try 10X (not 9X or 11X) digital zoom on the newer Google phones. It’s some math trick that makes 10X digital OK. This could be fun. Only problem being: It’s difficult to dial it into exactly 10X zoom.
Orphan Oct 2024 – This one is with child. Making a baby orchid. How cool is that?
One of my orphan orchids that I adopted shortly before leaving is with child. In orchid-land spontaneous asexual new orchid is called a keiki which is Hawaiian for baby or child.
Huge white one – gift spring 2022 – it was blooming when I left and still has more buds on the stalk.The First Orchid—Gift Spring 2019. When I left, it had two blooming stalks, and it’s still going strong. It has bloomed almost all year. Gift from Asylum Management during Covid – January 2021. This one started blooming while I was away.Summer 2023 orphan. It started blooming while I was gone. And I really like this one.
The orchids are all doing great. Thank you, Barb, for orchid duty above and beyond…
My five-month-old Pixel 3 watch hasn’t been behaving properly for about a week. I restarted it several times, turned it off and back on, did a factory reset, threatened it, and finally decided it was a charger problem. A new charger arrived late this afternoon, and the watch is all good again. Love it when my guess is correct.
The sun came out today, and I can clearly see two construction cranes. One threatens my view of the Old Post Office Building, and more concerningly, the other threatens my view of the Washington Monument. But that’s certainly completely out of my control.
Gratitude
I am grateful for the view that I have enjoyed for the last nine years. I hope the buildings will be much shorter than the cranes. If not, I have lots of “before” pictures out that window.
The sun warmed things up to about 45° this afternoon. And, I made it out for a quick lap around my regular exercise route. The Taco Truck is still operating, The Party Store is closing, Einstein’s Bagels is still open as is Starbucks. So, the neighborhood survives.
This is good. Ray the Rosemary Bush survived without me.
The week between Xmas and New Year’s is just weird. Everyday seems like it should be some day that it isn’t. I am sure that it’s Saturday. But, it’s not.
It will soon be “The Year of the Snake.” I better brush up on my snake-folding skills. This is a rather unsatisfactory snake.
Cold and gray and damp and generally not nice today. But, I did get 2 months of snail mail processed. Outdoor exercise didn’t happen today. Maybe tomorrow.
Made it back to The Asylum smooth as silk. The entire trek was about 15 hours from condo to Old Bat Cave.
The Old Bat Cave is in excellent condition.
The orchids look great. When I left 2 were blooming. Now 4 are blooming.
4:36PM – The view is bleak. The Asylum is warm. The Old Bat Cave is cozy. Life is good.
I will dedicate the next couple to days to jet lag.