Storm Coming In

Bailey's Crossroads

We were out on our back porch last night – waiting for a little storm to come on through – when the setting (sitting? it is like affect and effect, who knows which is which) – when the retiring sun fired up an office tower in Bailey’s Crossroads.

Ah, the mundane stuff of life. While waiting on the bus to the volunteer job this morning my little red Nano got the “white screen of death”. After I got home from work – I did everything I could think of – then headed down to the Apple Store. The Genius said: “It is broken, it is under warranty, here is a replacement, sign here, have a nice day”. Now, that is what I call customer service.

Walking back from the Apple Store – I saw a cop nestled under a nice shade tree pointing a radar gun at me. For a instant I thought he was going to give me a ticket for walking too fast. Catholic guilt – one never gets over it. Or is that driver guilt? From having way too often nudged the speed limit.

Rainy Day Today.

Good news, Carlton seems to be getting over his cold. Must be the chicken soup I made yesterday.

It has been an entire week since the daughter removed herself from our life. And told us to never contact her again.

Neither of us put much stock in moping around and feeling sorry for ourselves. We have already made some changes in our “estate planning” to ensure the youngest granddaughter will have be able to go to college student-loan free. (Unless, I suffer some really serious stock market reversal.) The oldest granddaughter is already setup, by one of her other grandmothers.

When you have children – you sort of assume that they will be around to look in on you in your old age. The old joke – Be nice to your daughters, because she will select your nursing home. Now, we get to select our own nursing home.

Didn’t volunteer today – the office was closed. But, I’ll go in tomorrow instead. It is going to be another rainy day.

Failed.

Failed to catch a single sun spot.

But, on the positive side – and I am working damned hard being positive these days – on the positive side: I did not fry my eyeballs. Nor did I catch anything on fire. Heck, I didn’t even singe anything. And, I might have seen sunspots using a piece of paper and my spotting scope. Or it might have been dust on the lens. And I got that really cool purple lens flare.

The 2012 annular solar eclipse will miss us. So, I guess I need not stockup on welder’s glass.

The Sun.

There are some monster big sun spots right now. There might even be some Class X solar flares and “interesting” coronal mass ejections (CMEs).

And the Transit of Vensus is coming up June 5. (The last Transit in our lifetime).

Tomorrow at sunrise – I’ll play around with my photographic options. I don’t have a solar filter. No welder’s glass either. Don’t want to destroy my eyes or catch something on fire. Or fry my good camera.

Grilled Cheese and 8 Newspapers

Enjoyed a nice afternoon at home. Grilled cheese sandwiches and beer for lunch and 8 newspapers were piled up under my reading chair. The best thing I found in the papers was an ad from the Freedom From Religion Foundation. They were urging folks to leave the Catholic Church En Mass. And, of course, you can join.

Who wouldn’t want to be an After-Life Member of an atheist group?

Another Day

So much for the city life, only thing I found to photograph on my walk home for work was a rabbit.

I think Carlton and I need to get away for a little while. But, Carlton hates to “get away”. And, I love to “run away”. I was planning to go to Norfolk for the Tall Ships War of 1812 event next month. But, we need to be together right now. I’ll try  to think up a Carlton Friendly little trip.

Carlton has just fired up a DVD about the War of 1812. I don’t know squat about the War of 1812. Maybe, I should watch.

 

Nothing has changed except my outlook

flowers to feed the soul

Yesterday, I called in “sick” to the volunteer job. But, as we old women do, this morning I put on my sensible shoes and carried on. I went to the volunteer job today. My coworkers figured I would be there. They had flowers for me. Peonies. It pays to show up for life.

Came home this afternoon, Tuesday being Carlton’s volunteer afternoon, I was home alone. So, I  put the flowers in the window and played with the new camera. (It was raining. That is why indoors.) The camera takes 3D pictures. Only thing is, you need a 3D television to see them. The camera is from Panasonic and Panasonic makes 3D TVs. Do you think there might be a connection? Really?

Nothing has changed with the family. Carlton and I are saddened by the departure of our daughter from our family circle. I morn her departure, but, I am better for having had her in my life for the last three plus decades.

 

Maybe the 2nd Worst Day of My Life.

The worse day of my life will be the day Carlton dies – or the day that we learn he has a terminal illness.

If I am first to go then this is the worst day of my life. I did the best I could  for my cobbled together family and I was found wanting. And now, and now I am bereft.

This is altogether too much public display of angst – but this records my life. And my life is currently unraveled. I shall wallow in misery for several days – then kick myself in the ass and get on with life.

Cinco de Mayo

Window in Alexandria from Tuesday

Sort of busy, sort of moping around when I wasn’t busy, last week.

A bunch of Tall Ships are coming to Norfolk, Baltimore, NYC, Boston and New London. Thought Carlton might like to go see them. So, I planned a couple of different trips. But, he wasn’t interested. I don’t have any problem leaving him for maybe 2 weeks. But, I don’t really want to leave him Home Alone for too long these days. We aren’t getting any younger – time together is precious.

I’ll try to come up with some other trip he might like. But, Mr C has pretty much reverted to his original homebody ways.

Been thinking about Japan for the last week or so. Japan – with all of it’s strangeness – pleased me.

 

River Daze

Georgetown Water Front
Girls Just Want To Have Fun
Some Things Never Change - Kids and Rivers

I had a totally urban day today. Took the elevator to the Metro. After 2 transfers and 3 trains, I arrived at a stockholders meeting. After stockholders meeting, returned to Metro. Stopped in Alexandria. Visited some shops. Bought a pair of shoes. Went down to the Alexandria waterfront. Ate the sandwich which I craftily brought from home. Drank a bottle of water I craftily snagged at the stockholders meeting. Then I hopped on the Water Taxi (more like the water bus) and went to Georgetown. The pictures are of the Georgetown water front. Wandered around Georgetown, took a bus to Rosslyn. Took the Metro, to the apartment building and the elevator back home.

Then, I completely screwed myself by telling Audible Dot Com to send 5+ GB of audiobooks to my Kindle. This is a total screwup on my part. The intended to have them sent to my computer and then to my iPod.

Amazon says it is Audible’s problem. Audible says it is Amazon’s problem. Which means it is MY problem.

Fatigued by Fatigue

Red Wing Blackbird - In Arlington.

Haven’t had nearly enough time to play with the new camera. Must do something about that next week.

I spent most of this weekend writing a policy/procedure for dealing with workplace fatigue. Not very exciting.